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30 (ok 31) Days of NOT bitching

OK, kids. I took 30 days off drinking and liked it so much I extended it to 90.

In May I’m going to tackle an even more insidious demon: complaining. 

In a meeting last week someone was bitching like crazy. It made realize:

  • how draining & unpleasant & self-perpetuating & totally non-productive it is
  • that I have wasted a big, fat portion of my time on this earth doing it

I know how hard this will be. Complaining is the great pastime, coping mechanism and bonding tool of our time. So here’s what I am going to do everytime I slip up and complain:

  1. Write down something positive (and true) about the person or situation in question on a slip of paper.
  2. Put the paper in a jar.
  3. Read all the positive things (yes, many slip-ups are expected) on May 31st

Anyone with me? Let’s try it!

Seth Godin: You will be disappointed

Sometimes Seth Godin just seems like a master of the obvious. This is a great reminder that in a #FAIL world it’s ok to hit bumps. In fact, it’s necessary.

Sooner or later, you’ll ask for something or read something or expect something and you won’t like what you get. You’ll feel like I wasted your time, wasted your money or didn’t meet your expectations.

Not just me, of course. Everyone. Even you. You will disappoint someone, and the organizations you depend on will disappoint you. Expectations keep rising, and promises keep being made. We keep bringing more magic into the world, but rising expectations mean that there’s more disappointment as well.

That’s part of the deal of being in the world.

The alternative, I’m afraid, isn’t to choose a path where we make everyone happy and always exceed their expectations. Nope. The alternative is to hide, to fail to engage and to produce nothing.

A pretty easy choice.

A Behavior Guide (in order to avoid mere survival)
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A Behavior Guide (in order to avoid mere survival)

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(Source: misfitwashere)

“I speak it to God: I don’t really want more time; I just want enough time. Time to breathe deep and time to see real and time to laugh long, time to give You glory and rest deep and sing joy and just enough time in a day not to feel hounded, pressed, driven, or wild to get it all done—yesterday. To have the time to grab the jacket off the hook and time to go out to all air and sky and green and time to wonder at all of them in all this light, this time refracting in prism.

I just want time to do my one life well.”

— Ann Voskamp (found on starthandingoutstars)
Gandhi’s 10 Fundamentals for Changing the World (or just Your World…)
We actually googled this to see if it was really a Gandhi list and not on Gohndy list etc. - and it is legit.

Gandhi’s 10 Fundamentals for Changing the World (or just Your World…)

We actually googled this to see if it was really a Gandhi list and not on Gohndy list etc. - and it is legit.

(Source: xokelseyrose10, via ambiguouslysavvy)

This is in the yes living. Seriously.
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Golden Rules

This is in the yes living. Seriously.

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Golden Rules

Willpower works best when it’s coming from somebody else - ask Larry David. (by TheGuysTravel)

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